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What are the advantages and disadvantages to having sex?

My friend is thinking about having sex with her boyfriend. She hasn't done this before hell she doesn't even know what a hand job is. So i want to have some fact to help her decide she is 15 and is 4 months away from it being legal. I worry about her, she is a bit naive when it comes to this sort of thing.She's on the pill. And to show a little about what she knows he has touched her between her legs and she doesn't know what he was trying to do.

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It's fun, a great stress releiver, gives you a much more inimate relationship with your partner.

But it can cause babies (which aren't always disadvantages, depends on the person) STDs, you may not be ready for it and can have some emotional downsides.

If you want to have sex, make sure your ready for it and want this. And always always be protected, but just because you're protected dose not mean that you are ready.

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Then it sounds like she's not ready and that's all there is to it. If you are being supportive, just make sure that her boyfriend is not pressurising her into doing it before she's ready. If he cares about her, he won't.

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go to www.xvideos.com and gather sex knowledge

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Pros-
*Feels good
*Can make a relationship stronger

Cons-
*Pregnancy
*STI's
*Can wreck a relationship
*Can make a relationship ackward
*It could hurt

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Advantages ; pleasure , good connection , stress-reliever
Disadvantages ; preganancy , teen-parenthood , std , hurt ,

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Pros: it may feel good, it could bring them closer together emotionally

Cons: Pregnancy, STIs (STDs) and HIV/AIDS, pain the first time (hymen breaking), it may not feel good, the relationship could become just about sex

I don't think your friend is ready. I really don't think she should be having sex.

I think these may be some good links for your friend:
http://www.avert.org/sex.htm
http://www.avert.org/teens.htm
http://www.avert.org/std.htm


Hope I could help!

EDIT: Like the person above me said, she doesn't know what a hand job is or what he was trying to do to her so she really shouldn't be having sex at all.
EDIT: Also, the pill can fail and she can get pregnant even if they use a condom, it could break.

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if she doesn't know what a hang job is and doesn't know what he was trying to do between her legs then she has no business having sex with him. she is obviously way too immature and needs to be educated with this stuff. the advantages of having sex is to express your emotions and love to someone when you LOVE somebody and you actually know what love is. it feels good but if you do it when your not ready you can have huge emotional problems after. which she is not ready! and disadvantages of having sex is you can get pregnant, even if your on the pill. you can catch a disease and you can get heartbroken very easily. sex is not just a game, its a wonderful thing if you treat it right. the guy who is trying to have sex with her is most likely using her. he obviously knows she doesn't know what shes doing so hes going to take advantage of that. i wish both you and your friend luck.

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Advantage - Fun, intimate

Disadvantage - PREGNANCY, STDS

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in short less pain and unlimited fun

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advantages : u get if off ur chest and feels good , brag to ur friends, feel more mature , feel relaxed and happy

disadvantages: Pregnancy lol

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Pros: It feels good

Cons: Risk of pregnancy, risk of STIs, risk of pain the first time, can be used as emotional blackmail.


Although I've listed more cons I personally think that the pro is good enough to match the cons. Also, you can eradicate those cons as long as you're careful.

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I'm learning about this stuff at school, and by the sounds of it, it seems like her boyfriend is kinda pressuring her to do it ... well sorta, if i had a boyfriend i would like if he gave me a choice if i should have sex or not. But i think that ur friend should noe that even if she is on the pill it wont stop her from getting HIV, STI and AIDS, if i were her, i would wait till my heart feels like it is the right time to do it.

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